Picking Up Girls at Parties

Depending on your age, they way to go about picking up the girls at the party can change. Back in high school it was all about status and who you were on the big stage and picking up those girls were easy. You could show up at a party and charm a few girls and boom you’ll have a girl licking your chops. But as you get older, picking up the girls became a little different. The girls were looking for something else and someone else really.

Lets say for example its your college years and you want to pick up girls at parties. Well girls aren’t as interested in the big shot athlete like in high school, sure if you were a division 1 quarter back that may help a little bit but in reality those girls are just jersey chasers who are looking to put you in their trophy case. At a college party, there is almost always drinking involved. It is your choice whether or not you want to participate but just remember to always be smart about it. Girls are not going to be very attracted to you if you get all sloppy at the party and are just drunk and stupid. That is not very attractive, I mean, it does happen to the best of us so shake it off and be smarter next time. Anyways, as girls get older, they want more meaning than just who somebody is, they want to actually be mature and have a reasonable conversation or two. When you get to the party, do not rely solely on your looks or how “cool” you are but actually be mature and be social. Girls are not going to go for the guy who sits in the corner and says nothing, you need to show them that you have a personality even if they aren’t speaking directly to you.

Your image has a lot to do with your chances of picking up girls at a party. Be clean and present yourself as put together. Girls will not be very attracted to the greasy haired kid with a dirty shirt and some non matching clothes. Your image comes down to more than just how you appear with your clothes but it comes to how you carry yourself. To pick up girls at parties, you must need to appear as confident and original. Girls absolutely hate that guy that shows up at the party that is a completely different person than what he is acting like. They can pick you out of the crowd and will immediately try to avoid you.

Remember that when girls get older, they want a grown up not just a little boy. So when you arrive to this party, actually try and talk to these girls about something rather than getting in their pants. Ask them about themselves and actually appear interested (even if you really aren’t) and be a listener. If you ask any girl what their favorite quality is in men, at least half of them will mention that they love guys that listen. So if your main goal is to bring a girl home, then charm them with your listening skills and show them you are an actual human being.

Remember that as the older you get the more mature these girls will be at parties. So do not act like an 11 year old juvenile and make yourself presentable and act like you belong there. If at all possible, go to a party where you know a lot of people and will not appear as a wall flower to people. If there is a new girl at the party or someone you have never seen before, introduce yourself and be friendly, this will impress both the new girl at the party and all of the other girls at the party. Who knows, it may even make the rest of them jealous that you were so sweet and so nice to a new girl who has never been seen before.

In conclusion, when you are at the point where you want to pick up girls at parties, remember that there a few things you need to do. Appear well put together, be respectful and also be mature. Girls hate immature losers who think they know everything. But most of all, be yourself, girls hate fake people and that will have them running away.